• Pastors, Congregants, Friends, and the Complex Dynamics of It All

    Pastors, Congregants, Friends, and the Complex Dynamics of It All

    Pastoral relationships can be difficult to navigate, and friendships within their congregation of service are even more difficult.

  • 2025: What I Lost, What I Found, and What I Protected

    2025: What I Lost, What I Found, and What I Protected

    In 2025, I learned to set meaningful boundaries rooted in self-care and emotional honesty. Letting go of unrepairable relationships and recognizing my role in past dynamics allowed for personal growth. Boundaries became essential for preserving my well-being, showing that love does not require unlimited availability, but rather, respect for oneself.

  • Christmas Eve: Christ

    Christmas Eve: Christ

    Reflections for Christmas Eve

  • Advent Four: Love

    Advent Four: Love

    Reflections on the fourth Sunday of Advent.

  • Advent Three: Joy

    Advent Three: Joy

    Reflections for the third Sunday of Advent.

  • A High and Holy Day

    A High and Holy Day

    That was who Mike Codgill was. A giant. A steady witness of what it means to follow Jesus. A mentor who mentored by simply being fully himself. A professor who challenged, listened, and encouraged. Someone who believed deeply in the church, in thoughtful theological education, and in the kind of…

  • Advent in Mister Rogers Neighborhood

    Advent in Mister Rogers Neighborhood

    As a child, I didn’t track just how important that was, but as an adult, I have come to realize that sitting in Mister Rogers’ living room each week was as formative for who I am today as any other regular experience in my childhood…

  • Advent Two: Peace.

    Advent Two: Peace.

    It is a word many of us hold close, yet often feel slipping through our fingers. We watch a world torn by conflict and cruelty and wonder if peace. . .

  • Advent One: Hope

    Advent One: Hope

    What is this first Sunday in Advent might bring the hope we need, even if we’re not prepared—or even looking—for it?